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Steve Long wrote: |
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> Joe Peterson wrote: |
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>> On Thu, Jan 17, 2008 at 10:56:36AM +0000, Steve Long wrote: |
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>>> Ryan Hill wrote: |
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>>>> I agree, though year of birth might be interesting. Income and children |
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>>>> are a bit too private. |
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>>> ++ in general although I do think parenthood (if responsible) is as |
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>>> relevant as age. A 28 year old with a 5 year old kid has a lot to show a |
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>>> 35 year old doctoral student with no kids, even if it's not all |
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>>> technical. # of kids isn't relevant. |
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>> Judging the maturity of users (or devs) by how many children they have |
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>> (or indeed *if* they have children) is pretty questionable. I know |
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>> people who have kids and are pretty irresponsible (that's not to say |
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>> most are, but one does not guarantee the other). And I'd argue that |
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>> someone with children does not necessarily have "a lot to show" someone |
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>> without kids, unless it is the specific experience of childrearing. |
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>> There are many people (myself and my wife included) who choose |
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>> consciously not to have children. It is becoming more and more a |
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>> *choice* people can legitimately make rather than just an assumed part |
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>> of life. It is not selfish or immature, as some people think, so I'd be |
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>> careful about implying that such a question gauges maturity. |
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> My apologies if I caused you any offense, Joe. I fully agree that choosing |
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> not to have children is just as mature as deciding to procreate, and more |
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> mature than simply drifting into parenthood. |
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> I suppose what I am getting at is the idea that there are others in Gentoo |
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> besides young single males. A responsible parent or a committed spouse has |
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> a very different perspective to a teenager. Certainly my perspective now at |
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> 37 is vastly different to when I was 18. Parenthood changed a great deal, |
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> as did the earlier process of committing to marriage. |
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> Which is not to denigrate people who chose not to marry; my godchildren's |
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> parents were dead-set about their commitment to each other without a piece |
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> of paper. I guess it's the change between being an individual and feeling a |
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> commitment to someone else. And yeah maybe it's not something we need to |
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> ask anyone, but it is good to consider that there are diverse perspectives |
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> within the group. |
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> In the same vein I asked on project wrt to number of female devs and was |
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> told there are perhaps 3 or 4 iirc. |
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For a survey of this kind I think questions about children etc are as |
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inappropriate as ones about sexual orientation. |
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Personally i'd stick to the fundamentals. |
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George |
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