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On Wed, 2019-06-19 at 08:03 +0300, Andrew Savchenko wrote: |
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> On Tue, 18 Jun 2019 20:33:09 +0200 Michał Górny wrote: |
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> > On Tue, 2019-06-18 at 19:20 +0300, Andrew Savchenko wrote: |
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> > > On Tue, 18 Jun 2019 09:43:05 +0200 Michał Górny wrote: |
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> > > > On Sun, 2019-06-16 at 23:00 +0000, Robin H. Johnson wrote: |
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> > > > > Only active Gentoo developers who are also Foundation members may be |
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> > > > > nominated. [1] |
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> > > > > |
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> > > > > Nominations MUST be made by posting to gentoo-nfp@l.g.o, and |
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> > > > > the nominated candidate must accept not later than the end of the |
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> > > > > nomination period. |
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> > > > |
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> > > > Ok, let's try someone else. I nominate: |
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> > > > |
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> > > > David Seifert (soap) |
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> > > > Mikle Kolyada (zlogene) |
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> > > |
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> > > You violated the rules: |
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> > > Nominations MUST be made by posting to gentoo-nfp@l.g.o |
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> > > |
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> > > But you sent them to gentoo-project@l.g.o mail list. |
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> > > Hereby they are not valid. Please perform your duty properly and |
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> > > send nominations to the aforementioned NFP mail list. |
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> > > |
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> > You could also have understood it was a honest mistake and be nice about |
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> > it. But I suppose that's too much to expect from a ComRel member. |
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> I politely pointed out your mistake and nicely asked you to fix it. |
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> I even used the word "please". I honestly don't see what was not |
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> nice about my previous e-mail. Maybe we have a language barrier |
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> issue here. |
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> My comrel membership has nothing to do with this discussion and |
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> I'm participating in it as a common Gentoo developer with my comrel |
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> hat off. |
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Do you really believe that a ComRel member (read: a person whose duty |
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involves judging other people's behavior) can just take ComRel hat off |
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and stop caring about providing exemplary behavior? Following that |
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logic, I could join ComRel claiming that all the things I've said |
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and done were 'with my comrel hat off' (since I don't have any)! |
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I understand that there might be a language barrier. However, since you |
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decide to perform a very specific and important role, I'm afraid you |
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need to learn to use English in a way that's actually polite rather than |
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using the excuse of a language barrier. |
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Let me explain. |
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A neutral (i.e. not really polite but acceptable) way of saying that |
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would be to say 'you have posted the nominations to the wrong list'. |
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That's plain and factual. |
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You said 'you violated the rules' which is an accusation. Accusations |
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tend to render one as guilty of doing something very bad. Accusations |
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are not polite. |
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Furthermore, 'perform your duty properly' is passive aggressive. Adding |
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'please' doesn't make it any more polite -- in fact, given just before |
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a insulting statement it may have the exact opposite effect. |
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The polite way of saying that would be to strip the first part |
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of the sentence and just say 'please send nominations ...' In fact, |
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as you can see the passive aggressive part is completely unnecessary to |
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convey the meaning, so what's the purpose of adding it besides |
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intentionally offending someone? |
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I hope this explanation helps you improve your language skills. |
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Best regards, |
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Michał Górny |